So its today...another day. My roommate finally showed up last night. I really was beginning to think he might be dead or in the hospital. So he shows up puts a check on the fridge(just to cover rent) and says I'll be back with more money later in the week...Hmmmm I've heard this before.
This chick he supposedly met randomly at a bar while out with Julie, the other chick he was dating when he first moved in, was talking to them both and asked him about his job and said 'Oh my friends are looking for a mortgage broker do you have a card?' She called him later on in the week and didn't really need anyone to sell her a mortgage she just wanted his number. SO he set up a date with her. Well apparently in between Julie and him stopping seeing each other which was like a 2 week process while he was dating the new one, and his exfiance being over all weekend until Valentines day morning and this new lady whom he spent valentines day evening with...she asked him to watch her animals while she was away.
She was gone for 12 days so he decided to give Steve and I our space since Steve was at 'the apartment a bunch'....oh yeah wait I got home Monday afternoon from N Carolina to him and his ex-fiance, who had been there all weekend. But Steve was at the apartment until Wed evening, so he was there a bunch...yeah...anyway...I had not actually seen him since that Wed. I could tell he had been at the apartment to pick up clothes because there would be a hanger on his bed or the kitchen light would be off when I always leave it on during the day for Celia.
So anyway he comes home finally last night after I text him to make sure he's OK(and I wanted $$ but just asked if he was OK) with no response....and he's all in love.
SO I asked about her and he's telling me all this stuff and they never stop talking and they don't get to sleep at all cause they talk so much and he's never been happier(blech!). SO I tell him I just signed up for eharmony. He goes wanna know a secret thats where I met this one?????? Well match.com
So I go "wait I thought you met her while you were out with"... and he jumps in and say "yeah thats the story but the first time I really met her was when I took her to that place you told me about remember? Tapas?"
Oh OK? SO does this sound weird to anyone but me??? Why would you make up such an elaborate story about meeting someone? If you really met her on Match.com what if it works out, which apparently it is, and you have to start telling people the truth? WTF? I'm so confused, why would not just be like Oh I met her a bar. Why would you go into such detail? Weird just weird. So I have no idea what to believe about this girl or this guys life in general. WTF?
SO anyway yeah I joined eharmony. I actually don't really want to be doing it but I guess its an easy way to kind of move on without actually really moving on. Because I really don't want to be dating anyone, I want to be alone for a while, but have to move on or else Steve and I are going to be stuck in the same place for a long long time. We've already been stuck in the same place for a long long time
So go on a couple dates with the least effort possible. I don't have to go out to a bar and meet anyone. I won't really feel bad being like yea sorry cause I can just send them an email saying thanks but no thanks...ha. Although I already had one guy out of my 5 matches close me out without even talking to me because I said something that he didn't like...personally I think its because his profile says he 5'6" which really means 5' 4 1/2" and you all know I did nothing but be myself in the profile so....I probably won't go on any dates anyway but at least I tried right? haha
So yeah anyway the bitches are gonna be here at work soon...so thats all for now.
Wow. That was a lot of stuff! I think your roomate is just a constant liar. He can't NOT lie. God only knows what this new ladies story is considering who she's dating. I hop he doesn't bounce the rent check. Again.
As for eHarmony... take it day by day. Don't rush into anything and end up on a date with a skinny guy wearing pegged pants. Not that that would happen to YOU. hEE HEHEHE heee heee.
*muah*
Posted by: jessica~ | March 01, 2006 at 12:35 PM